This book is an exposition of a personal experience of the feeling of identification with adoption and its processes. The meaning of adoption is approached in several aspects, such as the frustration of not being accepted by the family of origin, the intrusive ideas of what your life would be like, even the process of accepting your history with the original family, the adoptive family and with the family that one day the subject will choose. The book seeks to express in accessible language a real contact between the anguish of an adoptee and an adopter and their process of elaborating their own family history.